If you were to tell yourself even before you go for an interview that you are not going to be selected for the job, chances are that you will not be selected. By having a negative mindset, you are doomed for failure from the very beginning.
This is something that is so simple, yet overlooked by most people especially when they are working so hard towards their success. It somehow defeats the purpose of putting in all the effort.
Even if you tell yourself “I am not going to spoil my chances at this interview”, your brain works in such a way that it will only register “spoil my chances”. You know what will happen next.
Many people pay thousands of dollars to attend personal development courses and read all the books they can get hold of, yet most are not able to achieve a breakthrough. Usually, during the seminar, they feel all charged up and full of energy. Yet, very often, this charged up feeling tends to disappear after some time and success is still not within reach.
Successful people dress for success. Successful people ooze confidence in the way they speak and behave. How can confidence be attained?
Daily self-affirmations can help to boost confidence. Affirmations are powerful and positive thoughts and statements sent out to the universe. Affirmations are scientifically proven to rewire your brain so that you can achieve success. Always be positive and use the present or past tense. Keep your affirmations short and very specific and repeat them everyday. It is preferable to have a specific time set aside daily for your affirmations.
You also need to address your physiology in order to boost confidence. Physiology can affect your performance directly. As an example, let us say that you are going to make a cold call to a prospect for your network marketing business opportunity. If you are going to be slouching in your seat or cradling the phone on your neck, you are not in the state of a successful person full of confidence. Somehow your prospect will be able to sense this and will not want to follow an upline who has no confidence. You need to be in a state of peak performance in order to follow the path to success.
Finally, language plays a very important part. Always think in the positive if you want to follow the path to success. Disempowering language can pull you down immediately.
These various factors will help you to increase your confidence level. It is much easier to achieve success when you are confident of yourself, your thinking and your actions. The key to success is to overcome your fear of rejection and this can be when you have a sense of achievement.
With this, you will be able to do whatever it takes to be successful in your network marketing business opportunity and to achieve your goals.
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